So Sir says

I need less choices.
I need for him to tell me exactly what to do. He says he thought about it a lot.

So from now on he won't say "I'm going to talk to my friend and you can either come or go as you please" he'll say, I'm going to talk to my friend for 30 minutes, you will do the dishes, tidy the kitchen and then sit quietly until I'm done.

That... I think would work lol
Isn't that absolutely insane lol

Because what I really wanted to do was just sit at his feet with my head on his knee. But I was afraid he would think I was trying to take his attention away from his friend. I had no way to ask him without interrupting him. And I wasn't thinking clearly. He thinks due to the Cymbalta.
Maybe.

But after tonight's phone conversation I'm a lot less worried. lol. Instead of thinking about releasing me his decision his idea is to tighten the reigns aaahhh happy sigh. I feel much more secure that way. :)