Aftercare

Things that I know help me to come down slowly...

Cuddling into you, your arm around me, holding me tightly in your embrace.
(This makes me feel safe, protected)

Any touches from you, like stroking my hair or my cheek. (I love this especially it makes my heart sing)
Holding my hand.
Gently rubbing your feet on mine.
Pulling my leg in closer using your leg.
Soft kisses on my forehead.
(These things make me feel loved and cherished)

A soft warm blanket.
(Soothes my owies and calms me lol)

Chocolate. (No explanation needed lol)

After resting, either going to sleep with you or if I'm not staying then getting up and doing something physical 

(I found that dancing with you helped me immensely that night i do beleive it helped to prevent a major meltdown)

One of the most important things is to be able to hear your voice on the days following. I truly need to hear you say that you are pleased with me, that I'm wanted and loved and that I'm yours.

One time you sent me this message:

 you My slut belong to Me. you are My property, all that you once considered part of you, is now Mine. you have surrendered to Me, mind and body. There is no doubt, for you or I, I Own you.

That was/is absoutley perfect and sometimes I read it over again when i feel a little seed of doubt floating around.

Thats all I can think of at the moment, but I will add to this list when I find other things that work or other things we can try.

KC says with the proper attention given to providing the aftercare that a submissive needs... sub-drop can be minimized greatly and most times eliminated all together. I definitely want to work towards that goal :) I am so very blessed that you care about me enough, and value our relationship enough to want to work together to overcome this challenge. Thank you Sir. You not only have my love, you have my respect, you are a very caring and attentive Dom.

Regarding sex being a necessary part of my aftercare, that could very well be, I am still considering that idea.

You have asked me, what do i need... i don't a;ways know, it's trial and error. You are the only Dom I have ever played with, new feelings and reactions happen and I am only just learning about myself and how things affect me. Thank you for walking with me and being a part of my journey, I could not have wished for a more patient and loving Dom.